Greetings from Brooklyn, NY, where I am about 6 feet away from a Steinway that is filling the summer morning air with the most wonderful music ! We arrived at the Park Slope apartment of my dear old music-school friend, Marc, his partner, Seth, and their luminously lovely daughter, Samantha yesterday afternoon after a quick swing through my old hometown, Darien, CT, and lunch at my old school-days hang-out, Post Corner Pizza.
In Darien, my kids got a quick tour, pointing out the church where I first sang in choir, my old elementary school, the childhood home of my longtime friend, Nancy, and finally a loop around the cul-de-sac that was the street where I grew up. My old house has not changed much, but I was struck by how much smaller everything seemed. My driveway seemed much longer when my brothers and I used to spend afternoons devising all kinds of wheeled ways to coast down the hill toward the garage. The route I walked to school seemed much longer when I was happily kicking leaf piles all the way to school back in the 70's.
After arriving here, we walked a part of this wonderful old neighborhood: the Park Slope section of Brooklyn, past Grand Army Plaza, up to Prospect Park to allow my kids to run, wrestle, and flop on the broad green lawn with my friends, and quite a number of New Yorkers who use the park as their own backyard. Today, we'll be walking across the Brooklyn Bridge for some great views of Manhattan and New York Harbor. Seth is busy looking up subway and bus routes for our explorations while Sam entertains my kids and Marc fills the air with music and the occasional "inside" comment like, "this sounds like Faure", or "here comes that thematic material again"
But once again, for me, it seems that the some of my favorite episodes on this journey involve the people: family, strangers, new friends, and old friends whose endearing qualities only seem to intensify with time. After a delightful evening of talking, eating, and laughing with Marc, Seth, and Sam, my kids and I are spending a relaxed waking-up time this morning listening to Marc, a professional concert pianist and music professor, share his music with us. He's playing something right now that is by a 20th century Colombian composer, Mejia... poignant, rhythmic, and probably fiendishly difficult to play, but Marc makes it sound like the kind of thing one tosses off right after morning coffee.
A cross-country road-trip in 2011 with four kids in a mini-van got me started writing, but it was the later trip through Hell, and finding our way out that has kept me filling this space with a search for meaning and growth on this journey that we did not plan to take.
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Saturday, June 10 – Kittery Point , Maine
Find pictures from the beginning of the trip to this point at http://www.flickr.com/photos/64026048@N08/
(Sorry for the long delay between posts. It's been a series of long days on the road with no time to blog. )
On Wednesday, we said, “See ya Friday” to our Chicago Wall-Family: Larry, Lauren, Nolan, and Aiko, the affection-sponge who is otherwise known as a golden retriever, and navigated (with maps, no gps) our way out of Chicago on our way to Gettysburg, PA. (That, in itself, would make a good episode of a reality tv show.) The “nine hour drive” predicted by the AAA triptik took us about 4 hours longer than that, and even though we woke up the night manager to check-in at our hotel, he was sharp enough to follow us to our room, to bring me the bag that I had left at the front desk, in my bleary-eyed state.
The Visitors’ Center at Gettysburg was impressive, with its vivid,stirring film presentation, about the battle, the collection of artifacts, and as the 19th-century oil-painting "cyclorama" that depicted the disaster of Pickett’s Charge. As we walked the Gettysburg National Cemetery in the steamy mid-day heat, an energetic WWII vet (with his ribbons, medals, and various insignia on his cap, his vest, and shirt), who was also touring Gettysburg , gave the kids a history mini-quiz and was quite pleased with their answers. We were honored to thank him for his service to America and to listen to his story of being wounded in Germany during the war. (As usual, we seem to make our “tours” more like visits with people.) After we’d had enough steaming and baking ourselves in Gettysburg , we headed for Connecticut and the enthusiastic welcome of some of my old school friends from Darien High School , gathered at the home of Kris (Clarke) Bruno and her husband, Tom. My kids were anticipating “just a bunch of old people sitting around” and had been warned to make themselves unobtrusive. So, naturally, they rushed into Kris’ house, cap-guns blazing, and the raging imaginary gun-battle with a couple of Kris’ adult children lasted several hours, with the help of three large, excited dogs, and lots of yelling and laughing. During a break in the action, Jimmy Leary (one of the “kids” from my old neighborhood who might be called “Jim” or “James” by the other people in his world), took my kids to see some 4-legged kids in Kris’ barn: goats, rabbits, and horses. I’m hoping that one of the “old people sitting around” will post those silly pictures of our “totally boring” (HA!) time.
Calvin was invited by Tom to make free use of his BB gun to hunt the elusive aluminum can on their lush 5 acres of ancient Connecticut woods, "if it's Ok with your Mom."
Of course I consented. I'm that bad a mom.
After a morning in the kid-paradise that is the Bruno home: trampoline, zipline, rope-swing, pool, animals to play with, woods to explore, more target-practice with the BB gun, my kids were wondering if Kris’ paralegal expertise might extend to adoption papers…
A huge THANK YOU and much love to Kris, Tom, Alex, Sara, Cassidy, and Eden for their wonderful hospitality, and to my “old people” friends from back in the day: Matt (and Ray—you are a TREASURE), Debra, Jimmy, and Dagmar, for coming out on a worknight, in the pouring rain, to welcome the Hedrick Herd back to New England. Calvin asked me, as we drove off, headed for Gramma’s house in Kittery , Maine on Friday afternoon, “Are all your friends this cool? Are there more like this that we’ll get to meet?”
My answer was an emphatic “Absolutely!”
We’re now happily settled here at my Mom’s house in Kittery Point. Andre has joined us for the week, and the Chicago family is here as well. The Connecticut branch of the Wall family is due in very soon. Tomorrow, we’ll all go to Mom’s church and celebrate the baptism/dedication of little Nolan Robert Wall.
Was it worth the 4,000-something miles of road so far? Absolutely !
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